tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1662710784510545022.post6599909018687649467..comments2023-10-18T02:05:17.632+11:00Comments on Donor Eggs Journey: Infertility & GriefJourney Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13431048965054379161noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1662710784510545022.post-17488142550552097602013-08-13T23:17:34.619+10:002013-08-13T23:17:34.619+10:00Ohh wow congrats buddy...It has been a incredible ...Ohh wow congrats buddy...It has been a incredible happiness having a baby of your dreams. I wish you a happy parenting...<a href="http://www.ramasofathospital.com/infertility-main" rel="nofollow">Infertility</a> is a big problem but thanks to God for such a advanced techniques that can make everything possible.Karamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15127998962655629640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1662710784510545022.post-26966697014890973292013-08-03T14:49:05.753+10:002013-08-03T14:49:05.753+10:00This is such a heartfelt post. I can feel your pai...This is such a heartfelt post. I can feel your pain and sadness so strongly. I am so sorry it's so hard. I think you are on the right track getting some counseling - and figuring out its time to think of other coping strategies. Your dad sounds like such a great guy,and reading about his relationship with JBB is so touching. How sweet that JBB remembers these little gems but bitter sweet too that your dad is gone. <br />I was far away from my dad when he died suddenly. He was sick, but no body expected him to die. The reason I had not seen him for almost two years was because of IF and trying and timing and I felt so horrible that I had abandoned him for the dream of a baby that took a long time to find -two more years. And then my mom died two years later,one month after Isobel was born and again I felt guilty and like I had put IF before her too. It's so hard that we have to make these choices to find our families at the same time as we are losing parts of our family of origin.<br />Have you though of going to of grief group? It could really help your grieving process. Perhaps with BOO2 coming and having JBB to keep you busy you have not had chance to grieve your dad properly. The happened with my mom. Because Isobel was so young and it was such an exciting time ( and scary too) it was hard to grieve. <br />Anyway, my friend, I am thinking of you and hoping you are able to find some peace:) big hugs! <br />tireegal68https://www.blogger.com/profile/13943003575298698264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1662710784510545022.post-58620625673609562292013-08-02T05:34:25.925+10:002013-08-02T05:34:25.925+10:00this is a beautiful post. I commend you for seeing...this is a beautiful post. I commend you for seeing a therapist to talk out all thee worst cast scenarios in your mind. that helps me a lot! maybe it is not so strange or bad that you tie this birth an loss together in your mind. because baby #2 will always be a reminder of your dad. I am sorry you are goign through a hard time right now but you seem to have the self awarness and motivation to make it through! thanks for sharing these thoughts! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com